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And a woman he can't trust when he is away is dangerous to his survival and status. A man who diverts time and resources away from his wife and children endangers their survival. Often, it take a pregnancy with "the other woman" for the jilted woman to end the relationship, like in the case of Jack Nicholson and John Edwards, for the women or wives to realize that family resources and attention are now actually being threatened and diverted elsewhere.
Why Women Stay With Cheating Men?
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Most women can only relax with total transparency, openness and honesty from their intimate partner because they can feel half truths in their body. For example, if a man says he has to work late, but is really staying to watch the game with the guys and thinks his wife will be upset, she feels something uncomfortable in her body. Even though she might get upset about the game, she will feel angry but not off-balance as well. Generally, men, on the other hand, do not have this same body reaction with truth. In fact, men and women seem to have a very different experience with honesty and lies.
Men seem to have a lot more leeway for women's lies as long as it doesn't involve another guy or spending too much money. One marriage expert found that openness and honesty doesn't even make most men's top five values. A common example is a guy will say, "I'll call you" after a date because its the easiest way out. He doesn't realize, most women would rather hear, "Thank you for joining me" or "I won't be calling you because this isn't enough of what I want. Most women respect an honest man willing to face the short term pain of the truth versus the guy making excuses and afraid to state it the way it is, under the guise that he is making it easier on her.
He is making it easier on him and it is cowardly and dishonest. By the time a woman discovers an affair, most women have already gone through the worst of the suffering, thinking they were losing their mind and that their instincts were incorrect. Women's instincts help keep them and their children safe and well so having to question their instincts and think they can't be trusted or are somehow defective is terrifying to most women. Women suffer physically and mentally being lied to, told that they are "imagining things" or "crazy" when their gut feels something suspicious.
One of the cruelest things a man can do is lie to woman then call her crazy and tell her it's all in Cheating wifes in coward head when she challenges the lie. It causes her to doubt what her body and instincts are telling her and can often lead to her becoming ill. Because most guys don't care as much about honesty in the same way, they think the woman is dramatizing her feelings about lies. It is her actual experience. Once a woman has confirmation of the man cheating, she actually feels better in a strange way. Before she knew for certain, she felt crazy, off balance, unwell, angry and hurt.
Once she knows for sure, she feels hurt and angry but has her feet back on the ground and her wits about her. Now that she has her footing and her instincts confirmed, she is not happy about the infidelity but she is not experiencing self-doubt and tension in her body and head daily. However, once a guy has barely any confirmation of infidelity, that picture is permanently burned in his brain and most men leave unless they have small children that they feel a strong duty and obligation towards. Often, men can never get the image of their wife with another man out of their head and will have a very hard time moving past it.
Some men are so territorial that they will jump to the worst conclusion even if it didn't happen. So, women often stay after an infidelity because they feel better not being lied to anymore and want to see if they can get back on track because 3 usually comes up. Women tend to be very self-critical and easily guilted into being responsible for others - or over-mothering men, both accepting excuses from them and making excuses for them. If a cheating man hints that she was responsible for his cheating for example by saying, "You were away, you were sick, you paid the baby too much attention, you didn't wear short enough skirts" etc, the guilt switch can get easily flicked in a woman.
After all, she was supposed to be perfect, according to the ideal woman in her head, and when a man shifts the blame to her, most women accept blame that is not even theirs. All the guy has to do is hint that it is partly her fault, and it will often start to eat at her. Not so with most men. There is really no socially acceptable excuse for a woman to cheat because she is supposed to be virtuous. Very few men will accept accountability that is not theirs when their wives say, "You didn't talk with me enough" or "you travelled so much for work. Women, on the other hand, if they have any dad issues at all, are always hoping inside that they are enough to be truly loved and adored by the man that they are with.
Many can spend their entire lives with the wrong man, trying to "win" daddy by being good enough, pretty enough, patient enough, a good enough cook, etc. So, between being able to blame "hormones" in men and blame the evil other woman, a woman can make and accept enough excuses to accept an unaccountable man back and avoid having to make any changes in her life. Especially if there are kids. When I started my quest five years ago, I imagined it would be hard to find cheats and even more difficult to find ones willing to own up. Chris Huhne circled right his wife Vicky centre and Carina Trimingham left. My first cheat - who I met through a friend of a friend - flicked open his address book and it was a roll call of fellow philanderers.
It takes a cheat to know one. They passed me on like a parcel. Once they started reeling off their conquests, it was impossible to shut them up. Aged from 25 to 65, some were handsome, some were downright ugly, but most were successful. But nothing could be further from the truth. They just wanted something to fill their empty lives. One evening, my research took me to a bar, where I met a married man in his 30s and his girlfriend. Like most of the mistresses I met, she barely had two brain cells to rub together. He was so pathetic I almost felt sorry for him. If they did, would they risk inflicting such pain on them? The wife of a serial cheat told me: Suddenly every little fault and imperfection is exaggerated.
The men I met seemed to find it impossible to understand the damage they had caused. They seemed far more interested in their next affair. And when they were found out, they often turned the tables on their wives. One man boasted to me: In the end, she was the one apologising. Look at the way we tolerate Bill Clinton. One of the saddest stories I heard was from a woman whose husband had cheated on her when their youngest child was seriously ill. Desperately worried, this poor woman had started comfort eating and had put on weight. When she discovered her husband was having an affair, even her own family suggested she was partly to blame.
So, what can women do to protect themselves against cheats? First, be wary of women with long hair. One of the most unexpected things I discovered was that men nearly always cheat with women who have longer hair than their wives. They want to rekindle their youth with a younger version of their wives and long hair seems to equal youth. There was only one man for whom I felt any empathy or affection. And he was the only man who had an affair with a short-haired woman who was older than his wife. Sean, a teacher, fell in love with Nuala, a widowed barrister, when they appeared in an amateur dramatic play together. At 57, she was 20 years older than him.
But even he tried to have his cake and eat it for a year. The simple truth is that most cheats are cowards. They are not brave enough to admit there might be problems in their relationship.